The function of a pillar is to provide support for a structure above it. A pillar helps to distribute the weight of the heavy load it supports. In the healing, growth, and recovery process, there are similar necessary pillars.

To make a long story short, over the years that I worked with him, I gradually had to accept the news that there is no “secret;” there is no magic bullet. 

In order to support men in the change they’re looking for, I’ve created an empowering online community…

In our modern culture, so much more in the area of sexuality is accepted and even mainstream than in preceding decades. Yet the quiet struggle to find oneself sexually and the desire not to hurt others in the process can be confusing and overwhelming…

Alcoholics Anonymous, the 12-step program for those who have experienced alcoholism, began amidst shame and suspicion in the 1930s…

Let’s start with the compulsive porn user. Shame is the notion that what he is doing is abnormal and as such, must be kept hidden…